Focus on Netflix UK: Russian Doll

What can I say about this TV series? I’ve watched the whole series 4 times now. It has 8 episodes. You shouldn’t watch it if you feel at all suicidal. You shouldn’t watch it if you are experiencing current psychosis or dissociation symptoms. I love it I love it I love it. I love Natasha Lyonne. Apparently. She is so awesome in this. I also want her friend’s apartment. Oh and her friendships she has with her friends. So laid back. It looks so easy. Although I don’t want the relationships she has. Her prerogative obviously I just wouldn’t want men who treat me some of the ways hers do. I want her hair. An aside. I don’t want there to be multiple universes. Nor do I want what happens to the main characters to ever happen to me.

This is all I can give away without spoilers…so go watch it and tell me what you think!

Focus on Netflix UK: top watch for January

What? Hilda.

A cartoon with a strong female lead who’s quite different. Lots of adventure and strangeness! Ghosts, gnomes and trolls! What else do you need!?

My thoughts-

I love it! Great colours and storylines to get you hooked. I love Hilda and her mum’s relationship and how all Hilda’s friends accept each other for who they are not what they have in common.

Why watch it?

If you like quirky this is for you. It reminds me of Adventure Time slightly. It has good characters and the relationships are well created and deepening as I watch the series.

Let me know what you think of Hilda? Like or hate?

10 things I’d like to do some time in the non specified future

1. Work with a service dog

2. Go on a cruise

3. Have something published

4. Go to Disneyland Paris

5. Make my wheelchair into a powered one

6. Sell a piece of art work

7. Make money for a charity i support

8. Have a family photoshoot

9. Meet Helena Bonham Carter

10. Go to a beach where it’s actually warm!

Do you have 10 or more/ less things you’d like to do sometime? I love to know yours as it’s quite an interesting concept!

How much are you worth?

I’ve been thinking a lot recently about how the prime minister talks about people in the UK. In her speeches and interviews, she and other members of the Conservative government seem to only talk about “hard working people”. This seems to translate to, “people making a economic contribution to society”.

The prime minster seems to be missing so many people out. Just because you are don’t make money doesn’t mean you aren’t doing amazing things for society, whether you know it or not. I know people who make a terrific contribution to society via their charity work, but these people are not classed as “hard working” as they do not make money.

This is so demeaning.

We need volunteers to help in our community (just for some clarity the Conservative government actually want volunteers so go figure that one out!), we need mothers or fathers to look after their children when they want/ need to, we need carers to look after their husbands, wives and children. We need people who are not economically contributing but who are doing a great job at contributing and changing society!

People who can’t work due to illness or disability are also another type of people ignored in the prime minster’s speeches. No one chooses to become unwell or be born disabled. That’s just a fact. Life is less when you cannot do what you want to do (This is obviously not everyone who is ill/ disabled, some people are able to work and some are able to engage in activities they enjoy more often than others). For people like me, the phrase “hard working people” makes me go cold. I already feel guilt, shame and don’t feel understood and these words cut in me like a knife.

Perhaps we could all just be human beings? Treated with respect for just being on the earth? I think this is the only way a human being should be treated. We all have potential, whether that means we make a lot of money or not.

So let’s remember that everyone is worth something and let’s not put that worth on how much money a person makes, because what does that really have to do with how precious a person is?

Theresa May, please remember this too.

10 ways I self care

What is self care!? Heres some possible answers, if you have a different answer please feel free to comment below to add to the list!

* Taking care of you

* Taking care of your mental health

* Relaxing

* Not worrying about other issues just focusing on the task you are doing

* Making sure you are okay

* Taking time out

Self care is important for everyone. I do different self care activities depending on how I am feeling on the day. It’s so important to look after yourself mentally and perhaps get some activities in place that you can do each week.

My top 10 self care activities (in no order!)

1. Painting

2. Hugging my lizards

3. Writing poetry

4. Watching Netflix or YouTube

5. Listening to audiobooks

6. Having a massage

7. Listening to music

8. Baking

9. Having a lie down

10. Being in green spaces

What do you do to look after yourself? Or do you feel self care is not important?

Thanks for reading,

Beth x

Top photo – Leonard

2nd photo – Lily

3rd photo – Leonard